Jeff Barker
So what do you think of sex on the first date?
Tall Guy
Absolutely
Short Guy
Absolutely
Jeff Barker
What are the upsides of sex on the first date?
Short Guy
Sex
Boyfriend
A lot of guys go out looking for sex, not looking for a relationship, so it just depends on your intentions.
Girlfriend
Yeh!
American Tourist
A lot of it happens, but I wouldn’t go for it. I think you should hold on for at least a few days. Then you desire more of the person.
Tall Guy
I dont know, like the whole thing, wait, and wait, and wait and if your attracted to each other just go…
Bikini Girl
If it feels good, if it feels right, then go for it.
Babe In Sunglasses
No… I think you don’t unwrap your presant before Christmas!… Yeh I think its just too much too soon.
Boyfriend
It does release a lot of tension within the whole thing with couples when there together. If you get it out of the road in the beginning, you make the connection faster.
American Tourist
I guess if its bad, you can eliminate hime right away.
Jeff Barker
What do you think the downside could be, for sex on the first date?
Short Guy
There ain’t any

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Bessie Bardo
Hi! I’m Bessie Bardo
Jeff Barker
And I’m Jeff Barker
Bessie Bardo
And were RedHotPie’s dating doctors, and today were here to give you some smart and spicy dating advice. First we’ll start with the spicy…
Jeff Barker
Whats on today?
Bessie Bardo
You know everybody has an opinion about it! Everybody’s scared to know what to do. Sex on the first date!!!
Jeff Barker
Yes please!
Bessie Bardo
You say please… and guys seem to think they want it, then often you will think different of us the next day.
Jeff Barker
Well its true guys… you know who you are. Don’t think differently of them the next day.
Bessie Bardo
Respect us in the morning, please.
Jeff Barker
In deed, but seriously… the answer to sex on the first date is simple. Its completly up to the individual, and you have to respect that. You cant be pressured into it because someone’s nagging into your ear, or your friends are doing it, or somebody said you should. It really is up to you, and if it feels like something you want to do.
Bessie Bardo
So lets go thru some pro’s and con’s and try to get some sense into this situation. Pro’s… I mean the first one, like hello! its going to be fun.
Jeff Barker
Yeh, if you do have sex on the first date, its probably going to be fun.
Bessie Bardo
You’ll go with the moment, you will feel like your in a movie scene, it can be exiting.
Jeff Barker
Can be awkward
Bessie Bardo
Can be awkward
Jeff Barker
But mostly its fun, its supposed to be fun.
Bessie Bardo
And in some ways its good to get it over and done with, because you can work out, especially if you have been single for a long time, the tension from not having sex for such a long time.
Jeff Barker
Yeh
Bessie Bardo
And you can work out if your actually into the person, or if it was just a sexual attraction.
Jeff Barker
Or this can be that carrot on a stick scenario, where if you hold off from having sex on the first date, the person that your with will sort of chase you, and because you have a lot of chemicals running thru your body, you wont actually know if its true love or just a lustful fling. So sex on the first date can actually clear away all of that and leave you with the reality of wether you want to pursure the relationship or not.
Bessie Bardo
Sounds like a lot of fun so far, but there are some con’s of course as I said. Somebody could think differently the next day. Maybe not respect you in the morning.
Jeff Barker
Yes… the old "dont respect you in the morning". If the guy rolls over out of the bed and says "I’ve got to go to the Dentist sweetheart, I’ll see you later" you know you dont want him in your life anyway. Just think back, ok, we had fun at the time, dont collect baggage and bring it into another relationship because you think that might be the person that treats you right. Just accept it for what it was, and be glad that you have moved him along. If you hadn’t had sex on the first date, you would have found this out like 20 days in, and it would have been a lot more painful.
Bessie Bardo
Wasted a lot of time and energy. Ok, well tips, if you do do it, most importantly dont feel guilty about it. Life’s too short to be guilty. Just give him or her a call the next day, and have a laugh.
Jeff Barker
Just have a laugh about it. People can get all worked and think… Oh my goodness, I cant believe what I have done. Pick up the phone and laugh, just say that was a lot of fun. That dispells it all, and allows you to move on with the relationship.
Bessie Bardo
And be prepared, maybe it was just in the moment. Enjoy what you did. Dont necessarilly think of it as meaning anything in the future. And of course be safe and enjoy your dating.
Jeff Barker
In deed.
Bessie Bardo
Well thats it from us. If you would like to find out any more information, of course you can look at our books online, or you can go to RedHotPie
Australia. Well dont forget… Life is too short, so get it right the first time with out smart and spicy dating advice… bye.
Jeff Barker
See you next time.

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Jeff :
Whats your opinion of online dating?

Female #1 :
For some people its probably a good way of just getting… like there energy back. like getting back into the dating game.

Male #1 :
Well people usually when they sign up they put a profile down so you can go and watch what there interested in. Your not fighting thru the stuff you dont want to know.

Male #2 :
You can pretty much suss somebody out, like if your a bit of a conversationalist, it makes it really easy to do that.

Female # 1 :
And you know its all layed out on the table, so you sort of know what your getting into, and people put a bit of thought into what there going to put in there beacaus ethey want to give the impression of what they really want.

Female #2 :
And at the same time you can ask something you would never ask them on a date without feeling awkward or nasty.

Female #3 :
Yeh, I think it saves time doesn’t it, and you can communicate a bit before giving photographs of each other, just incase you dont fancy the particular person… you just disappear, I suppose!!!

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Jeff :
And I’m Jeff Barker

Bessie :
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Bessie :
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Your friends would hook you up once with Haryy the high pants… dramatic results would follow. But now online dating sites (like RedHotPie Personals Uncut Au) make it much easier.

Jeff :
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Bessie :
And its all about… no games. people are hopefully very honest about who they are and what they want. I know why you (Jeff) like online dating… because when someone rejects you, its not so painful as it is, face to face.

Jeff :
Yes ladies its true! If someone comes along you dont like, rather than having to jump out of the bathroom window of the club. You just press delete… and you never have to see them again.

Bessie :
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Bessie :
And you know your chatting to a girl, and not a guy.

Jeff :
Which is important!

Bessie :
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Jeff :
Come on!.. I’ve seen some horrific pictures. Dont get them taken by your cat or your baby brother. Dont take them in the dark. Dont use a mobile phone. Dont use your webcam. Get a simple digital camera. Go out and have some fun, go to a party…

Bessie :
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Jeff :
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Bessie :
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Jeff :
You want people to love you for you.

Bessie :
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Bessie :
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Jeff :
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